Polyamory does not fix the pre-existing issues in your relationships that are monogamous. Such things as bad interaction, selfishness, and secrets all carry into polyamorous relationships if perhaps not addressed.
We was once just what some would phone a serial monogamist. Just id find my way into another as I would leave one relationship. From senior school into my early twenties i did sont think you might have a real relationship with over one individual during the exact same time. I kept stepping into monogamous relationships during that we would fall in love, create a crush, or feel myself interested in other individuals. Even while my emotions when it comes to individual I happened to be in a relationship with would change nt. We nevertheless cared and loved for them. The most effective I could do ended up being you will need to ignore any emotions I experienced developed for the next individual, or often i might cheat, or simply split up because of the individual I became with during the time. I happened to be convinced We couldnt love one or more individual at a right time, so some body had to get.
I wound up harming a complete great deal of men and women as a result of my failure to understand that monogamy was not for me personally. Continua a leggere